EXPERT DIVORCE MEDIATION SERVICES IN FLORIDA
Divorce mediation services offer a practical and cost-effective way to manage the challenges of separation. Our certified mediator ensure an amicable and private process, focusing on mutually beneficial agreements for all parties involved. By choosing our divorce mediation services, you save time, reduce costs, and avoid the stress of courtroom battles. Contact us today to learn more about how we can assist you in reaching a fair and peaceful resolution.
Why More Floridians Are Choosing Pro Se Divorce — And How Mediation Makes It Easier
Divorce is never easy, but in Florida, more and more people are realizing it doesn’t have to be expensive, drawn-out, or combative. Enter pro se divorce — a growing trend where couples choose to handle their divorce without hiring attorneys. Instead, they work with a Florida Supreme Court Certified Family Mediator to guide them through the process.
So, why are people skipping the traditional legal route? The answer is simple: cost, control, and cooperation.
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What Is a Pro Se Divorce?
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In a pro se divorce, both parties choose to represent themselves rather than hire separate attorneys. But that doesn’t mean they’re navigating the process alone. A certified family mediator steps in to help both spouses reach agreements on everything from property division to parenting plans — all while staying neutral and solution-focused.
The mediator also helps complete all necessary court documents and ensures everything is properly filed with the county court. At Tridialogue Mediation, we handle this entire process — whether you’re in person or joining us via Zoom.
Yes, you read that right: location doesn’t matter anymore. With e-filing and virtual sessions, you can complete your entire divorce from the comfort of your own home.
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Why Choose Mediation?
Even in traditional divorces, Florida courts often require mediation — especially when the two sides can’t come to an agreement. This is known as court-ordered mediation, and it happens whether attorneys are involved or not.
But the most successful mediations? They happen when couples choose mediation on their own — early in the process. When both parties are committed to resolving things respectfully, mediation saves time, money, and emotional strain.
At Tridialogue Mediation, we focus on building understanding, keeping communication productive, and helping you move forward — not fight it out.
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Benefits of Pro Se Divorce Through Mediation:
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✅ Lower cost – Avoid high attorney fees
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✅ Faster process – No waiting for court hearings
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✅ Less conflict – Work toward shared goals, not opposing sides
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✅ Confidential – Keep your personal matters private
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✅ Convenient – Mediate in person or via Zoom
The Bottom Line
Divorce doesn’t have to be a battle. If you and your spouse are ready to move on — without the legal drama — pro se mediation might be your best next step. At Tridialogue Mediation, we’re here to make that process smoother, more affordable, and far less stressful.
Want to learn more about how we can help? Contact us today for a free consultation or to schedule your first mediation session.
During family law or divorce mediation, the parties work on agreeing about:
Division of Assets and Debts
Florida law requires a fair and equitable distribution of the assets and debts acquired during the marriage. Establishing such a fair and equitable distribution is crucial in mediation.
According to Florida Statute 61.075, important considerations for a fair and equitable distribution include:
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How long the marriage lasted and the contribution to the marriage made by each party. Florida law gives consideration to the care of children and services as a homemaker.
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2. The current financial circumstances of each party
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3. Did one spouse contribute to the education or career of the other spouse?
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4. Who will keep the marital home as a residence, and will that be for the benefit of a dependent child?
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5. Does one spouse want to retain a business, professional practice, or corporation intact and free from claims by the other party?
Alimony
While there are laws that govern the determination of alimony in Florida, it is essentially based on the need of one party weighed against the other party's ability to pay. Florida law allows for different types of alimony:
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:Bridge-the-gap—Intended to help one party with short-term needs and for a duration of no more than two years
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Rehabilitative — Intended to provide support to a spouse until they can become self- sufficient not to exceed 5 years.
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Durational — Durational alimony applies to any length of marriage except for marriages less than 3 years. See the blog at this website in Tridialogue University page titled "Florida Alimony Laws 2023" for more comprehensive information.
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Permanent — Permanent alimony WAS ELIMINATED effective July 1, 2023. For more comprehensive information on the recent change on Alimony in Florida, See the blog at Tridialogue University page in this website.
Parenting Plan
If there are children that were born or adopted during the marriage, mediation can help determine an agreeable shared parenting plan. The shared parenting plan will include details about:
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Visitation schedules and arrangements
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The decision whether child support will be agreed on by both parties or if it will be per Florida Statute 61.30
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Will health insurance be provided by one or both parents?
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How will current and future educational costs be handled between both parties
Divorce is a stressful and painful ordeal when emotions are high. When the final outcome results from compromise and agreement, rather than protracted litigation, it allows both parties to feel more satisfaction and reduces the substantial financial burden of a protracted legal battle.
Why Mediation Might Be the Healthiest Path Through Divorce
Divorce is never easy. It’s emotionally draining, often financially stressful, and can feel overwhelmingly complex—especially if you're representing yourself. But there’s a powerful alternative to the traditional courtroom battle: mediation.
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Unlike litigation, mediation takes place in a more relaxed, less intimidating setting. There's no judge, no formal courtroom procedures, and no pressure to follow complex legal jargon or rules. Instead, the people involved—often sitting around a table or joining via Zoom from their homes or offices—can have real conversations about what matters most.
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For pro se litigants (those handling their divorce without an attorney), mediation offers a much-needed sense of control. You're not bound by courtroom etiquette or rigid legal arguments. You're encouraged to speak freely, explore creative solutions, and work collaboratively toward an agreement that works for everyone.
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When divorce is litigated in court, both parties can feel like they’re under attack—defensive, anxious, and misunderstood. Mediation flips that script. It’s a more conciliatory process where both sides have the chance to express their views, explain their needs, and listen to one another. The mediator’s role isn’t to take sides, but to guide the conversation and help both people move toward common ground.
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And here’s something powerful to consider: Couples who reach a mediated agreement are much more likely to stick to it. That’s because the outcome isn’t imposed by a judge—it’s something you both built together. Mediated solutions tend to reflect compromise and mutual understanding, which makes them more sustainable in the long run.
Another major benefit? Privacy. Courtroom proceedings become part of the public record. Mediation, on the other hand, is entirely confidential. Mediators are legally bound to protect your privacy, creating a space where open and honest communication is not only possible—it’s encouraged. You can speak freely, knowing your words won’t later be twisted or used against you.
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And let’s not overlook the cost. Litigation can be extremely expensive and time-consuming. Mediation, especially when working with a Certified Family Mediator, often leads to faster resolutions, significantly lower costs, and much less emotional toll. For pro se litigants, this means saving money, time, and quite frankly, a great deal of stress.
If you’re facing divorce, consider taking the path that leads to resolution, rather than more conflict. Mediation isn’t just a legal alternative—it’s a human-centered approach that can help both parties move forward with dignity, respect, and a renewed sense of control.
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If interested in getting more information about the divorce process, please email:
contact@tridialoguemediation.com and we will send you the link to a presentation explaining the process.